Anonymous
This one shift radically changed my dating life. For years, I believed success in relationships came from being the “nice guy” and just working harder. I spent time in long-term relationships and did all the “right things”—but after a major breakup and countless lackluster dates, I realized my old way wasn’t working.
That’s when I found Robbie Kramer’s program. I dove in, joined the community, and started getting serious about self-development. Instead of just repeating old habits, I learned how to build a real sense of frame and confidence. Weekly coaching, group sessions, and hands-on support pushed me out of my comfort zone into real, targeted growth.
The results? Night and day. I went from occasional dates—and feeling seriously stuck—to going on six dates in a single week, meeting incredible women, and learning what really works. Suddenly, I was attracting higher quality relationships, more affection, and honestly, more options than I had time for.
Here’s the takeaway: If something’s not working, stop trying harder at the same thing. Get a proven framework, surround yourself with people who get it, and make bold changes. That’s how you go from frustration to abundance—fast.
Orion
I used to think getting better at dating was all about gimmicks and awkward small talk. Turns out, I was dead wrong.
After a six-year marriage ended, I found myself lost, overweight, and completely out of practice. I dove straight into Robbie Kramer's Inner Confidence program—no research, just instinct—and everything changed.
The process? Much more than just dating tips. I revamped my style, set up killer online profiles, and, most importantly, plugged into an international group of guys all pushing each other to level up. I traveled to places like Colombia and Montreal, got out of my comfort zone, and learned through hundreds of real-life interactions (and, yes, some epic mistakes).
The results blew me away: I dropped 45 pounds, went from crippling social anxiety to running parties and thriving in social circles, and—most life-changing of all—I feel genuinely confident, inside and out. Dating's easier. Making friends is easier. Even my career feels less daunting.
The biggest takeaway? Wherever you're stuck, you can't do it alone. The right group and a willingness to learn from mistakes will transform you faster than you think is possible. Sometimes, swallowing your pride and jumping in is the real breakthrough.
Cedric
Most people approach dating like a high-stakes interview — and that used to be me. I was 30, living in my mom's basement, confidence shot from too many rejections in San Francisco. Enter Robbie Kramer and his coaching program.
Instead of treating dating as something daunting, Robbie Kramer taught me how to make it fun, lighthearted, and playful — even when facing rejection. It wasn't just about the techniques or the mindset, but connecting the two in a way that made every interaction enjoyable for both people.
The result? I met the woman who is now my wife. That playful approach not only helped me in dating, but it’s been crucial for managing conflict and building connection in my marriage.
Here’s the takeaway: Stop treating dating (or relationships!) like an intimidating challenge. Treat it as a fun learning experience. Keep it light, stay relaxed — and you’ll be surprised at how much easier everything gets.
If you’re a logical, analytical “geek” like me, trust me: making connection fun and playful changes everything.
Almost Divorced
I used to think once the word "divorce" was on the table, there was no turning back. But then I heard this story from Bob inside the IC Community, and it completely flipped my perspective.
Anon came to Robbie Kramer already in the thick of a separation—papers filed, court date set, relationship on life support. But instead of groveling or desperately trying to fix things, he took a counterintuitive approach: total acceptance of the situation, leveling up his own life, and quietly rebuilding his confidence. He focused on his finances, learned how to communicate and set boundaries, and stopped trying to convince anyone he was the "good king"—he just started acting like one.
Here’s the crazy part: just two months later, his wife called off the divorce. Anon got back way more than just his marriage—he found a new sense of self, and a toolkit for building stronger relationships moving forward.
What struck me most? Sometimes the fastest transformations come when you stop chasing approval and instead transform yourself. That shift isn’t just relationship advice—it’s life advice.
Digital Nomad in Colombia
I used to think online dating was the only game in town.
When I first moved abroad as a digital nomad, I was crushing it on the apps—Tinder and Bumble felt like a goldmine compared to my time in San Francisco. But a few months in, I started to realize something was missing. My social circle was tiny, my lifestyle felt isolated, and I was spending way too much time swiping and sending texts to total strangers. The ceiling was real, and I wanted something more.
That’s when I found Robbie Kramer and The Inner Confidence Community (IC). Instead of just being another guy in DMs, I started building real connections—offline and online. I quit the apps entirely, built up my Instagram from scratch, learned to put out engaging content, and leaned into running events and bringing other awesome people into my life. Not only did my dating life improve, but I ended up moving in with three other guys from the IC group and we started creating our own adventures together—way more fun (and effective) than flying solo.
The biggest shift? Moving from a “hunting” mindset—always chasing the next first date—to a “farming” mindset: investing in a social circle, creating lasting friendships, and letting real opportunities grow naturally. The Discord (think collective intelligence on steroids) became my 24/7 lab for learning, sharing, and leveling up.
If you’re stuck in the cycle of endless swiping and wondering why things aren’t changing, the answer isn’t more dates—it’s better community. The relationships you build with other men fuel everything else: your confidence, your lifestyle, and eventually, your love life.
Takeaway: Don’t just change tactics; change your environment. Surround yourself with growth-minded people, and the outcomes will surprise you.
HJ
“Using your dating protocol, everything just happened really easily, there’s something to be said about the way you structure. There was nuances with texting that you were able to teach that I’d never considered. I no longer had to sleep with girls to show people “look I’m good enough.”
Fernando
“I highly recommend this program to anyone out there who wants to improve their confidence, and the sooner the better because you’re only better off in the long run!”
Amir
“You helped me with online dating and having good dates, and the combination of those two meant I met around 200 women. And in that time period I became less afraid of them and then you pushed me into social circle and the rest is history. I was so afraid, so ashamed and isolated and now I don't feel that way anymore..."
David
“I just want to say thank you for the work you’ve done with me, I feel like I possess a super power. I have a constant flow of leads wherever I go and leads lined up back at home. I feel like it’s this great superpower I can use anywhere in the world and I highly appreciate the work we’ve done.”
Duke
“Your philosophy resonated with me, it really clicked and made sense. I lost 60 pounds thanks to the program and I started laying the ground work for my social circle. I’m running social circle game, on top of doing the approaches which has really gotten my juices flowing as a man. You guys give advice and direction that I’ve never even conceived of before and I apply the knowledge and see results. I have the beginning of a six pack at the age of 47 and I’ve leveraged my social circle into dating some really high quality women. I’m currently dating a model and international DJ.”
Dan
“My biggest sticking point was feeling really restricted with my sexuality, being German of course. The biggest thing I got was how to behave around very beautiful women with a lot of options. I would recommend if you want to meet girls and attract girls in general and have a good time with them. There is a jump to the hottest girls in the world and you can only get to that level by getting feedback on what you have to do and how to behave to have success with those girls and bring it to another level.”
Guillaume
“I was struggling with hot women and I didn’t feel comfortable around them, I acted differently and I could feel it. I already had success with women but not with the quality I wanted. After the training I feel way more comfortable, I have so many dates and I know how to overcome my anxiety. I feel so comfortable escalating and I’m not nervous or freaked out thinking what should I do."
Nick
“I wanted to improve my daygame ability and reduce anxiety about women and how to conduct myself at clubs and bars. You helped me formulate texts that were funny. I probably did 150 some odd approaches and I feel like my anxiety is way lower now. I learned how to conduct myself in a chill house party, how to set that up and maximize my returns on that.”
Eli
“I chose Robbie because his approach is really honest and sincere. He always preached that building confidence is the key and becoming good with women was just the byproduct and he really helped me a lot.”
Trevor
“I feel so much more comfortable around people, not just women. The biggest thing was that you believed in me and just having that and seeing you with everything you’ve been through believing in me it gave me hope that I could do this.”
Adam
“I came away the ability to carry the conversation with women for hours and never worry about to say. Beyond that I gained social awareness and it was a very honest and integrity based program that was awesome.”
Cameron
“Things that I never thought possible have become a reality and my confidence has skyrocketed. I’m really excited with the techniques I’ve learned here and how it’s changed my life, it’s just been awesome.”
Sergio
“I highly recommend this program to anyone out there who wants to improve their confidence, and the sooner the better because you’re only better off in the long run!”
Gary
“I would definitely recommend Inner Confidence to anyone who wants to come off as a genuine person who wants to learn the skill of being comfortable with yourself.”