The Power of Social Osmosis: How to Improve Your Dating Life by Surrounding Yourself with Success
When I was diving into the dating coaching world, I made huge leaps in all parts of my life. What gave me the edge? I hung around guys who were aces in social situations and with women.
The Magic of Masterminds
Here's the scoop. A mastermind is a support crew. A group of people on the same mission as you, helping each other grow. Napoleon Hill talked about it in his book "Think and Grow Rich." But if you're working on your dating game, you're probably flying solo. When I began, I didn't even tell my buddies. I knew they’d mock me.
The Good, the Bad, and the Creepy
I started going out with friends to bars, but they ended up messing up my game. They would swoop in on the girls I was chatting with. Some even laughed at me for trying to improve. So, I moved on to the local dating community, or "Lair." That was even worse. Many of these guys were creepy and scared girls away. They made me look bad just by being near me.
Breaking the "Dork Forcefield"
You need to get good to hang out with the best. My buddy calls this the "Dork Forcefield." Imagine you're great with women. Would you waste time with someone who's not? Nah. You have to either be great or offer something else valuable.
The Law of Social Osmosis
We all pick up vibes, thoughts, and habits from the folks around us. I call it "osmosis." If you're hanging with losers, you become one. But if you're with the best, you rise too. The trick is to be around people who are where you want to be. They'll give you feedback that you won't even notice, but you'll improve.
The Right Mental Models
Experts have detailed mental roadmaps. They’ve been there, done that. They know what works and what doesn’t. You get these roadmaps by hanging around the right people. I've spent years and endless hours honing my social skills. And it works like a charm.
Take the Shortcut
Hang out with people better than you. It's the fastest way to level up your dating game. Whether you want to be funnier, more assertive, or better in business, find the guys who are crushing it in those areas.
The Community
It’s not just advice; it's also a network of top-notch guys. I screen everyone to keep the quality high.
If this sounds like your jam, here’s the link to apply. We’ll chat and see if it’s a good fit. Even if it’s not, I'll give you a plan that works for you.
So why wait? Time to break that Dork Forcefield and soar.